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我和老公都是80后,结婚2年多了,父母们都一直为生孩子的事给我们施加压力,我虽然喜欢小孩子,可是一想到自己生孩子就特别抵触。我和老公现在收入不高,都不是很稳定,每个月还有2千块钱左右的房贷,要做近20年的“房奴”。我是觉得现在的生活压力太大了,每个月我们俩都剩不下什么钱,这样的话拿什么养孩子,我真不想让孩子生出来之后受苦,不想经济原因委屈了孩子。老公和朋友们说我这种“想法”有问题,请问我的观念真的出了问题吗?该如何调整?——郝女士
My husband and I are 80, married more than two years, parents have been exerting pressure on us to have children, although I like children, but think of myself as a child born in particular conflict. My husband and I now have a low income, are not very stable, there are 2 thousand dollars a month or so mortgage, to do nearly 20 years “house slaves ”. I think that now the pressure of life is too big. Every month we both have no money left. In this case, what kind of raising children, I really do not want to give birth to the child after suffering, do not want economic reasons wronged children. Husband and friend said I this “idea ” have a question, does my concept really have a problem? How to adjust? - Ms. Hao