从小父母就强调读书学习,因为将来谋生不可缺少。殊不知爱人也是一本书,如果不好好研究研究,把它读懂,也会考不及格,轻则跟爱人闹别扭,重则整个家庭出轨翻车。婚姻是两个异性的结合,可许多人不要说对爱人的个性了解不多就连对方这个性别的共性也不甚了解,他们的婚姻也就盲人骑瞎马由它去了。 所谓的男女有别,不止是生理上的差异,在心理上、情绪上、行为方式上都有不同。如果对爱人的异性特点缺乏了解、照顾和尊敬,婚姻生活碰壁就是难免的。一般来说男人有一种英雄主义的倾向,好表现,荣誉感特别强,特爱面子,喜欢自由、独立,不喜欢受制于人。男子还比较富有浪漫主义的倾向,喜欢冒险,更容易被新的东西吸引,重义气、好朋友、爱热闹……而女子则内向得多,也实际得多,她们活动的圈子相对较小,感情细腻而深沉,渴望温柔、深情、体贴……结婚以后,当女子在婚 Since childhood, parents emphasize study and study because they are indispensable for their livelihood in the future. Everyone knows that love is also a book, if you do not study well, read it, will pass the exam, ranging from light to do with the wife, while the whole family derailed. Marriage is the combination of the two heterosexuals, many people do not say little understanding of the personality of the lover even the other side of the commonalities of this gender do not quite understand, their marriage blind blind horse by it to go. The so-called difference between men and women, not just physical differences, in the psychological, emotional, behavioral differences are. If the lack of understanding of the opposite sex characteristics of lovers, take care of and respect, married life is inevitable. In general, men have a tendency to heroism, good performance, a strong sense of honor, especially love face, like freedom, independence, do not like to dominate. Men also tend to be more romantic, adventurous, and more likely to be attracted by new things. They are more loyal, loyal and loving. However, women are more introverted and much more practical. Their activities are relatively small, Delicate and deep feelings, longing for tenderness, affectionate, considerate ... After marriage, when the woman is married