独生子女在幼儿园里所占的比例日益增大,这是幼儿教育正面对着的前所未有的情况。由于缺少正确教育幼儿的常识,不少家庭较普遍地存在着对幼儿智能估计过高,生活保护过分,缺点迁就过多的弊病。诸如,偶然发现幼儿能拉响小提琴,或能重复一两句大人教的外语,就认定有“天赋”,就寄予过高期望,就延师超负荷培训:本该由幼儿学着做的生活小事,也统由家长包揽。其结果,导致一些幼儿形成“自我感觉良好”、自私、任性、挑食、不合群、缺少耐心、 The increasing proportion of only children in kindergartens is unprecedented in early childhood education. Due to the lack of common sense in properly educating young children, many families have the common shortcomings of over-estimating young children’s intelligence, overprotected lives and overcapacity. Such as accidentally found that children can sway the violin, or can repeat one or two adults to teach foreign languages, it is identified as “natural”, they have placed too high expectations, extension of teachers to overload training: should be done by children learn to live Small things, but also by the parents swept. As a result, some young children have developed "self-feeling, selfishness, self-willedness, picky eaters, lack of patience,