问你一个小问题:“喜欢听流行歌曲吗?”你大约会答:“喜欢。”那么再向你一个问题:“为什么喜欢?”这下答案可能就多了,什么“放松神经”呀,“消遣娱乐”呀,更有痴迷者,答曰:“能从中听到自己的心声。” 暂且放下前两者不说,单说这“能从中听到自己心声的”。按照心理学中的“镜像观念”,这的确无可厚非。因为“人类先天有一种倾向,就是使自己被人注意,这时他人就好像一面镜子,自己从中观察自我。”试想,当你发现有人与你说着同样的话,有着同样的心情时,该是一种什么样的感觉,那简直就是心灵上强烈的共鸣。 Ask you a small question: “Do you like to hear popular songs?” You will be about to answer: “Like.” Then you have a question: “Why do you like?” The next answer may be more, what “relax” ah, “Recreational entertainment” Yeah, more addicted person, said: “can hear their own voice.” For the time being let go of the two do not say, just say that “can hear their own voice.” According to psychology in the “mirror concept”, which is understandable. Because “human beings have a natural tendency to be aware of themselves, then others are like a mirror, from which they perceive themselves.” Imagine when you find someone who shares the same words and feelings with you, What kind of feeling, it is simply a strong spiritual resonance.