多少年来,父母教育孩子,从来都是以长者的身份去呵斥、去教训。尽管我觉得我比自己的父母开明多了,有时候可以听听孩子的意见,但是经过反思,我认识到,自己的许多做法还是欠考虑的。在北京师范大学研究生进修班学习之后,我在教育孩子时,总会想起“无错原则”,想起理解、尊重、接纳等人际交往的艺术。我开始少了几分随意,多 For years, parents have educated their children to scold and take lessons as elders. Although I think I am much more open-minded than my parents, sometimes I can listen to my children’s opinions, but after reflection, I realize that many of my own practices still lack consideration. After studying at the Beijing Normal University graduate school, when I was educating my children, I always remembered the principle of “no mistake” and remembered the art of understanding, respecting and accepting interpersonal relationships. I started a bit less casual, more