同事小白最近忙着为单位开发一个新的电脑程序。为了这个工作,他熬了好几个通宵,下了很大工夫。程序做好后,客户又提出了不少修改意见,同事显得很自责。他说,从小自己做任何事都是一遍过,否则就是失败了。其实他这次的工作,带有很大的挑战性,也没有人要求他一遍就成功。他为啥会这么想呢?薇薇心理咨询师韦学亮:我很钦佩严格要求自我、积极拼搏、奋发向上的人生态度,但无法认同如此简单草率,甚至有些自虐地定义“失败”。被客户提出几条修改意见就算失败的话,那遭上 Colleague White recently busy developing a new computer program for the unit. For this job, he boiled several nights, a lot of work. After the procedure is done, the customer has put forward a lot of modification opinions, the colleague appears very self-blame. He said that when he was young, he did everything again, otherwise he failed. In fact, his work this time, with great challenges, no one asked him to be successful again. Wei Wei, consultant counselor Wei Wei: I very much admire strict self-seeking attitude, hard work and progressive attitude toward life, but can not agree with such a simple sloppy, and even some masochistic definition “failure ”. Was proposed by the customer a few amendments, even if the failure, then suffered