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柳女士: 与竞争是人类的天性一样,“合作”和“互助”也是人的天性之一。一般来说,幼儿对“竞争”两个字的意义并不了解。我们不要把大人的价值观和对输赢的虚荣心加在孩子的身上。在对待输赢这个问题上,家长应该将自己的虚荣心降到最低,帮助孩子确立正确的输赢观。别吝啬赞美和鼓励孩子的价值观是建立在周围最亲近的人、事和物上的,如果父母鼓励孩子尽力去做,而且事后又能赞美他,他对做任何事都会以积极的态度去处理。任何事只要孩子尽了力,就是“赢”。因此,如果父母说:“我相信你会做得很好,妈妈帮你加油。”这样远比“努力一点,要不然会输”来得更具有鼓励效用。
Ms. Liu: Like competition is a human nature, “cooperation” and “mutual aid” are also one of human nature. In general, young children do not understand the meaning of the word “competition.” We should not add the values of adults and the vanity of winning and losing to our children. In dealing with the issue of winning or losing, parents should minimize their own vanity to help children establish the correct view of winning or losing. Do not mean to praise and encourage children’s values are based on the people, things and things that are close to each other. If parents encourage their children to do their best and later praise them, he will take a positive attitude toward anything . Anything as long as the child did his best, is “win ”. So if the parents say: “I believe you’re going to do a good job, mum helps you cheer up.” This is far more encouraging than trying to “work harder, or else lose.”