现实生活中不难见到这样的孩子:学什么总比同龄的孩子慢,做什么也比小伙伴差。他们总是被斥为“笨手笨脚”。这些孩子上学以后问题更多:明明很用功,起得比别人早,睡得比别人迟,可成绩就是上不去。面对老师、家长的责备,他们也很沮丧:我就是笨嘛。他们真的是天生愚笨吗?孩子为什么觉得自己“笨”呢? It is not difficult to see such children in real life: what to learn is always slower than their peers and what to do is worse than their small counterparts. They are often denounced as “clumsy.” After these children go to school more problems: obviously very hard, played earlier than others, sleep later than others, the results can not go up. Facing teachers, parents blame, they are also frustrated: I am stupid thing. Are they really stupid? Why do children think they are “stupid”?