生活中常常遇到这样的事,你辛辛苦苦为孩子做好了饭菜,可他就是不吃;或将饭菜弄成一碗大杂烩;或者刚吃几口,便不顾劝说在饭桌上爬上爬下。幼儿的这些行为不仅令人伤脑筋,也给你带来不少麻烦。但是,作为父母,应该学会理解。如果你认为这样做将影响幼儿的饮食而深感不安,那倒大可不必。让孩子吃饭,是期望他能健康成长;对他的行为训练,是为使他的行为能被社会接受。这是两码事,尽管都比较重要,但又完全不同。 Often encounter such things in life, you work hard for the children to make food, but he is not eating; or make a bowl of hodgepodge of food; or just eat a few mouthfuls, regardless of persuasion to climb climb up the table under. These behaviors of young children are not only troublesome, but also bring you a lot of trouble. However, as a parent, you should learn to understand. If you think that doing so will affect your child’s diet and feel uneasy, you probably do not have to. Let the children eat, expect him to grow up healthily; training his behavior is to make his behavior be socially acceptable. These are two different things, though all are more important, but totally different.