每个人都会有失败的时候。如果我们是明智的,就会把这些失败当做学习过程中必不可少的一部分来接受。但是,作为父母和老师,我们经常会剥夺孩子们的这种权利。我们或者是通过语言,或者是通过行动,向我们的孩子传达一种信息,那就是失败是一件令人羞愧的事情,除了取得最好的成绩之外,什么也不能赢得我们的赞扬。 Everyone will fail. If we are wise, we will accept these failures as an integral part of the learning process. However, as parents and teachers, we often deprive children of this right. We communicate a message to our children, either by language or by action, that failure is a shameful thing and we can not win our compliment except for the best results.