师生在交往的时候,需不需要划出一条界线,互不逾越呢?很多人都喜欢拿“刺猬互相取暖”这个故事来说明人际交往要保持一定的距离。事实上这是一个没用的故事。因为它只说明了“保持距离”这样一个空洞的道理,并没有告诉人们,究竟要保持怎样的距离才合适,标准不明晰,这显然是忽悠。 When dealing with teachers and students, need to draw a line, do not exceed each other? Many people like to take “hedgehog warm each other,” the story to illustrate the interpersonal relationships to maintain a certain distance. In fact, this is a useless story. Because it only shows the hollow principle of “keeping a distance ” and does not tell people what kind of distance should be maintained and the standard is not clear. This is obviously a flicker.