刚参加工作时,我按照“勿兴风作浪”的处世格言行事,为了供养三个子女,我满足于保住那份自己喜爱的工作。因为怕引起人们对我的注意,我惟老板的马首是瞻,嘴巴贴上封条——于是也就错过了许多好机会。当我终于鼓起勇气大胆提出要求时,我的头儿们大吃一惊。他们真的不知道,我对这些要求会存在兴趣。一旦我学会了要求我想要的,我便获得了干更重要工作的良机。当今之世,你吃不起做谦谦君子的亏——因 When I first joined the work, I acted in accordance with the adage of “Do not be on the wind.” In order to support three children, I was content to keep my favorite work. Because of the fear of drawing attention to me, my boss was on the lookout and my mouth was sealed - and so missed many good opportunities. My head was astonished when I finally bravely challenged. They really do not know, I am interested in these requirements. Once I learned to demand what I wanted, I got the chance to do more important work. Today’s world, you can not afford to be modest gentleman’s loss - because