随着城市化进程,家庭发生了很大变化,而媒体、政府、社会对这种变化的理解和把握直接影响到了未来该社会的发展。在日本,近年来人们感受到所谓“家庭崩溃”的现实感来自于经过故事化操作的新闻报道等社会舆论,其背后体现的是不同时代价值规范(基本主题)的变化。而实际上,日本战后家庭变化的事实和人们感受到的现实感之间存在很大龃龉。近年来日本的杀子、弑亲、虐童、自杀率都呈减少趋势,而远非媒体宣传的激增态势。在战前这一特定历史时期,只能依赖血亲的家庭意识和不能给人添麻烦的社会规范被强化,这是这一时期“亲子殉死”增加的主要原因。 With the process of urbanization, great changes have taken place in the family, and the understanding and grasping of such changes by the media, government and society have a direct impact on the future development of the society. In Japan, in recent years, people have come to feel the reality of so-called “family collapse” comes from the public opinions of news stories that have been operated through stories. What is behind this is the change in the value norms (basic topics) of different ages. In fact, there is a great deal of uncertainty between the fact that Japan’s post-war family changes and people feel the real. In recent years, Japan’s killing children, widowers, child abusers and suicide rates have shown a downward trend, which is far from the surge of media propaganda. During this particular historical period before the war, the only dependency on the blood-family consciousness and the non-intimidating social norms were intensified, which was the main reason for the increase of “parent-child death” during this period.