在工作间隙,我偶尔会为高中生做心理辅导。许多学生跟我提过类似这样的问题:“爸妈和老师都要我好好学习,但是我实在不喜欢上学,不是有许多没怎么上过学的人也成功了吗?”现在的孩子以独生子女居多,关注自我远远多于关注他人。因此,我没有劝他们去体谅父母的艰 In the work gap, I occasionally do psychological counseling for high school students. Many students have mentioned this to me like this: “My parents and teachers need me to study hard, but I really don’t like going to school. Didn’t many people who didn’t get to school succeeded?” "Now children The majority of children are only children, and they tend to focus more on themselves than on others. Therefore, I did not advise them to understand the difficulties of their parents.