天下只有三件事。一件是“自己的事”。诸如上不上班、结不结婚、吃什么东西、开不开心、要不要帮助别人……凡是自己能安排的皆属之。一件是“别人的事”。诸如小张好吃懒做、小陈婚姻不幸福、老陈对我很不满意、我帮助了别人,别人却不感激我……凡是由别人主导的事情皆属之。 There are only three things in the world. One is “own thing ”. Such as on the go to work, knot is not married, what to eat, unhappy to open, or do not help others ... all those who can arrange their own belong. One is “other people’s affairs.” Such as Zhang delicious lazy, Chen marriage is not happy, Lao Chen very dissatisfied with me, I helped others, others are not grateful to me ... ... Anything else led by others belong to it.