“下得了厨房,上得了课堂;做得了蛋糕,讲得了故事;教得了奥数,讲得了语法;改得了作文,做得了小报;懂得了琴棋,会得了书画;搜得了攻略,找得了景点;提得了行李,拍得了照片;想得了创意,搞得了活动;挣得了学费,付得了消费。”日前,这则被称为“当妈新标准”的顺口溜在网上走红,引发不少妈妈的吐槽,有人戏称其为“十八得了超级妈妈”。一些年轻妈妈对照这一标准,大呼压力山大,要求“减负”。对此,专家表示这些“负担”并无必要,年轻妈妈不要舍本逐末追求一些表面化的技能,最重要的是给孩子温暖和力量,这才是好妈妈的核心“技能”。 “Got the kitchen, got on the class; done the cake, told the story; taught the Austrian number, spoke grammar; changed the composition, did the tabloid; know the piano, will get the calligraphy and painting; ; Got the baggage, photographed photos; think creatively, made activities; earn tuition, paid for spending. ”“ Recently, this is known as ”when the new standard mother “ jingle became popular online, causing Less mother Tucao, some people jokingly called ”eighteen had a super mother.“ Some young mothers control the standard, shouting pressure on the mountains, requiring ”burden reduction “. In this regard, experts say these ”burden “ is not necessary, young mothers do not want to end by pursuing some superficial skills, the most important thing is to give children warmth and strength, this is the heart of a good mother ”skills ".