有的妻子一旦发觉自己的丈夫有了外遇,便出门骂,进门骂,天天吵闹,甚至闹到丈夫与“第三者”的单位,想把丈夫骂回头,想把“第三者”骂跑。事实上,这根本解决不了问题。 遇到丈夫有外遇,最要紧的是头脑冷静,分析一下产生婚姻危机的原因,找准原因,有针对性地和丈夫好好谈心。多谈谈两人相爱的时候,以此唤起丈夫对夫妻感情的珍惜之情;多谈谈患难与共的经历,使之回忆在困难时两人同舟共济的情景;多谈谈孩子的 Some wives, once finding out that their husbands have had an affair, went out to scold, scolded each other, every day noisy, and even to her husband and “third party” units, wanting to curse her husband and trying to scold the “third party” . In fact, this simply can not solve the problem. Encounter her husband have an affair, the most important thing is calm-minded, analyze the causes of marital crisis, identify the reasons, and carefully talk to her husband. Talk more about the love between the two, in order to arouse the husband’s love of the feelings of the couple; talk more about the experience of affliction, so that memories of difficulties in the two during the same boat together; talk more about the child