Q我和妻子在性爱的时候,我对她温柔一些,她则要求我猛烈一点;当我猛烈的时候她又要求温柔点。请问性爱到底是要温柔还是要攻击性?A男性在性行为中的攻击性是有雄性生物学基础的,但是,人一旦成为社会人,其行为就会受到社会文化的影响。许多情况下,男人在性生活中不仅是凭着本能,还会刻意地表现其攻击性——越生猛,越有攻击性,表明他性功能越好。 Q My wife and I are tender for her when I am sex. She demanded that I be a bit violent; and when I was violent, she demanded softness. Will sexual desire in the end be gentle or aggressive? A male aggressive sexual behavior is a male biological basis, but once people become social, their behavior will be affected by the social culture. In many cases, men in sexual life not only by instinct, but also deliberately demonstrated its offensive - the more aggressive, more aggressive, that he is better sexual function.