在《现代汉语词典》中,搭讪一词是这样解释的:为了想跟人接近或把尴尬的局面敷衍过去而找话说。很明显,这个词至少不是个褒义词,但这丝毫不妨碍它的流行。6年前,阮琦的出现带火了一个叫“搭讪学小组”的网络论坛,而今这个小组已经成为数万青年男女的聚集地,甚至还拓展出搭讪培训这个产业,他也因此被冠以“搭讪教父”“魔鬼搭讪师” In the Dictionary of Modern Chinese, the term paraphernalia is interpreted as saying in order to get close to or embarrass the situation. Obviously, this term is not at least a commendatory term, but this does not hinder its popularity. Six years ago, Nguyen Chi’s presence brought a web forum called “Chat Group”, and now the group has become a gathering place for tens of thousands of young men and women, and even expanded the industry to get together and training. Distinguished “” catch Godfather “” devil take the teacher "