监理工程师处理与施工单位关系时应注意以下几个方面 ,也可以说应注意“七忌”。1　忌不讲原则 ,一团和气监理单位和施工单位首先是监理与被监理的关系 ,是一对矛盾对立统一体。监理工程师要在法规和合同授权范围内 ,严格履行自己的职责 ,站在公正的立场上解决工作中出现的问题 Supervision engineers dealing with the construction unit should pay attention to the following aspects, it can be said that should pay attention to “seven bogey.” 1 bogey do not speak principle, a group of polity supervision units and construction units is the first supervision and supervision of the relationship is a pair of contradictory unity. Supervising engineers should strictly perform their duties within the scope of laws and regulations and contractual authorization, and solve problems arising from their work on an impartial standpoint