本文在中日比较文学的视野中 ,从多愁善感与倔强的性格特质、感情专一与嫉妒排他的情感特点、不平等的情爱关系和悲剧命运的实质三个层面比较、分析和论证了道纲母和林黛玉这两个中日悲剧女性形象的同中之异 ,剖析了古代社会女性的心理特征和不平等的情爱关系 ,揭示了造成她们悲剧命运的实质原因 From the sentimental and stubborn traits of personality, the exclusive emotional characteristics of jealousy and the emotional characteristics of jealousy, the relationship between love and love and the substance of tragic fate, this article analyzes and expounds in the field of Sino-Japanese comparative literature, And Lin Daiyu, the similarities and dissimilarities between the tragedies of Chinese and Japanese women, analyzed the psychological characteristics and unequal relationships of love in the ancient society and revealed the essential causes of their tragic fate