上帝对于每个人都是公平的,它关闭了你一扇门,却打开了你另一扇窗。就看你会不会放弃,会不会拥有。在人生的长河里,我们并不可能是一帆风顺。我们若想要拥有,就要不断地放弃,正如“鱼和熊掌不能兼得矣”。记得我看过这样一篇文章:一个乞丐在去求神的路上看到了一个魔鬼在和两个乞丐交谈。魔鬼说:“我可以让你们变得富有,但是你们必须要拿自信来与之交换。”一个乞丐毫不犹豫地拒绝了。这时,另一个乞丐走上前去说他愿意用自己的自信去交换财富。于是,在那一瞬间,他便拥有了一切,此刻,他也同样失去了自信。一年后,他又来到这个地方,这时的他依然是个乞丐!这时,一辆豪华汽车里走出了一个人,那人竟是一年前的另一个乞丐!因为他拥有自信,他越挫越勇,于是他终于成功了。而失去自信的乞丐却害怕挫折,最终失去了拥有的一切,变回了原来的乞丐。 God is fair to everyone. It closes one door and opens your other window. It depends on whether you will give up or not. In the long river of life, we cannot be plain sailing. If we want to have it, we must constantly give up, just like “fish and bear’s paw can not have both.” I remember reading an article like this: A devil is on the way to asking God to see a devil talking to two people. The devil said: “I can make you rich, but you must exchange confidence with them.” "A 乞丐 refused without hesitation. At this time, another embarrassed person walks forward and says that he is willing to use his confidence to exchange wealth. So, at that moment, he had everything, and at the moment, he also lost confidence. A year later, he came to this place again, at this time he was still a jealousy! At this time, a person came out of a luxury car. The man was actually another embarrassment a year ago! Because he had confidence, he More frustrated, he finally succeeded. The embarrassment of losing self-confidence is afraid of setbacks. Eventually it loses everything it possesses and changes back to the original embarrassment.