圆子:我结婚20多年了,孩子都已上大学。我和丈夫都是急脾气,结婚以来吵架争执从未断过。我在一家事业单位工作,收入不高但比较稳定,丈夫在国企工作。我是本科学历,丈夫没上过大学,到现在还只是一般职员,不求上进却又好高骛远。孩子出生后,我承认自己把更多的精力放在了孩子身上,忽视了对丈夫的关心。但这些年他一事无成,我对他越来越失望,平时的言语中不知不觉就会比较尖刻,有时让他觉得没有 Mariko: I got married for more than 20 years and my kids have been in college. My husband and I are both temper-temper, never quarrel dispute since marriage. I work in a public institution, and my income is not high but stable. My husband works in state-owned enterprises. I am a bachelor’s degree, my husband did not go to college, up to now it is just a general staff, not seeking progress but ambitious. After the child was born, I admit that I put more energy on the child, ignoring her husband’s concern. But all these years he failed, I am more and more disappointed with him, usually unknowingly speech will be more sharp, and sometimes let him feel no