中国人生下来就跌进一张无形的网里。这是一张关系网，一张纵横交错的关系网，大千世界的芸芸众生，都是这张大网上的一个“结”。这东西太重要太有用，重要得如同阳光，有用得如同空气。我们的一切我们的一生，注定要在网里。 　　一个孩子生下来，他 (她 )的父母或者别的什么 Chinese people fall into an invisible net. This is a network of relationships, a network of criss-cross relations, all the world’s mortal beings, are a large network of this “knot.” This thing is too important and too useful, important as sunlight, useful as air. Our all our life, doomed to be in the net. A child is born, his or her parents or something else