一个人,只有当他灵魂真正震撼了、刺痛了,他的智慧才可能被空前的发掘。14岁那年的秋天,我正读初中,还不明白人其实是该有点抱负什么的,整天三五成群,捣蛋摸鱼,吃喝玩乐,毫无忧愁可言。父母对我的顽皮颇觉伤怀,找了许多自以为理由的理由谆谆教诲。记得父亲说的最多的一句话是: One person, only when his soul is truly shocked and stings, his wisdom may be unearthed. When I was in junior high school at the age of 14 years old, I still didn’t understand that people should actually be a little bit ambivalent. All day long, three-by-five, intoxicating, eating, drinking, and playing, there was no worry. My parents were very upset with my naughty feelings, and I found many reasons to justify myself. I remember my father said the most: