其实大自然从不重复它自己,世界上本没有相同的两片叶子,所以每个人也都各具特色,世界才能丰富多彩——所以,我也不再为他人的认同与否而患得患失了,也不再一味自责惶恐。有一次顺路坐朋友的新车回家,我欣羡地说:“你们夫妻最近生意应该不错吧?这两年又是买新房又是买新车的,很有本事呢!”结果一路上他们大吐苦水,生意如何不顺、开支又如何大、孩子没办法照顾只能送全托、沉重的房贷加车贷……我沉默了,仿佛揭开一袭华丽的幕布,却望见生活千疮百孔的无 In fact, nature never repeats itself. There are no two identical leaves in the world. Therefore, each person also has its own unique characteristics. The world can be rich and colorful. Therefore, I no longer have to suffer the loss of identity or not for others. No longer blindly blame yourself. One time I took a friend’s new car home, I envy said: “Your husband and wife recent business should be good, it is the past two years to buy a new home and buy a new car, a lot of skill!” The results along the way they are Disgusting water, how bad business, how big expenses, the child can not take care of can only send full-time care, heavy mortgage plus car loan ... ... I was silent, as if opened a gorgeous curtains, but saw every corner of life No holes