榜样对我们小孩来说非常重要。这一点在每本优秀的儿童指南书里都能读到。而且从父母的嘴里也总是能听到这样的说法。当我们还很小的时候,会先模仿大人所做的一切,因为从模仿当中可以学到许多东西。但那不是真正的榜样,他们只是示范者。随着时间的推移,我们会发现,父母所做的示范不总是对的或好的。有的小孩发现得早一些,有的则发现得晚一些。顺便提提,我自己很早就发现了这个问题。 The role model is very important to our children. This can be read in every excellent book for children. And from my parents’ mouth I can always hear that. When we are still young, we will first imitate what adults do, because we can learn a lot from imitation. But that’s not a real role model, they’re just demonstrators. As time goes by, we will find that the demonstration made by parents is not always right or good. Some children found earlier, while others found later. By the way, I discovered this problem very early on.