我们平时常说：爱情可遇而不可求，并因此而放弃了对许多心驰神往的安情的追求，这并不完全恰当。就如天上不会掉馅饼，任何事情都不可能坐等而来一样，理想的爱请永远不会自己送上门来，而应由我们去勇敢追求，甚至费尽千辛万苦。这有“求爱”一词可以作证。但是，所有的爱清 It is not entirely appropriate that we usually say that love is a success and that it can not be pursued, and as a result, it gives up the pursuit of so many peace of mind. Just as heaven does not fall pasties, it is impossible to wait for anything. The ideal love will never come by oneself. Instead, we should bravely pursue and even exert a great deal of hard work. This has the word “courtship” to testify. However, all love Qing