爱情到底是什么?美国心理学家罗伯特·斯坦伯格给出一个简单的定义:“爱情是一个故事。”注意,是一个故事,而并非事实。我们说爱上一个人的时候,其实我们不是爱上一个人,而是爱上一个关于这个人的故事。所以,爱情面前,永远是不断的考验和诱惑。我们总以为,有可能遇到一个更符合故事的人。所以,在人生的关键点上,你必须决定,到底是继续寻找你想象中最完美的故事,还是满足并珍惜当下已经拥有的情感。在爱情这个问题上,我们 What is love in the end? American psychologist Robert Steinberg gives a simple definition: “Love is a story.” Note that it is a story, not a fact. When we say that we fall in love with a person, actually we are not in love with a person, but in love with a story about this person. Therefore, before love, will always be the test and temptation. We always think that it is possible to meet a more consistent story. So, at the heart of life, you have to decide whether you want to continue looking for the perfect story of your imagination, or to satisfy and cherish the emotion you already have. On the issue of love, we