来访者:我现在……我现在心里难受。(一个二十岁左右男孩的声音)咨询师:听上去你很难受,能告诉我发生了什么事吗?来访者:……反正就是难受,我也说不好……(从来访者的谈吐速度和思路,的确感觉到他是个不善表达的人。也正因为这样,他可能有着更强烈的内心体验和更浓烈的情绪。几秒钟的停顿后,他叹了口气。这边,我没有插话:那边,他在自己的情绪空间里酝酿着表达的思路。)咨询师:那么……你想和我从何谈起呢?来访者:我现在就一个人呆着……难受。(语气非常低落。) Visitor: I am now ... I feel sad now. (A voice of a boy about the age of 20) Consultant: It sounds uncomfortable to you, can you tell me what happened? Visitors: ... Anyway, it’s uncomfortable, and I can not say it well ... (From the interviewer’s conversation Speed ​​and thinking, do feel that he is a poor expression of people, and because of this, he may have a stronger heart experience and more intense emotions, after a few seconds of pause, he sighed and here, I do not have Interrupting: There, he is expressing his ideas in his emotional space.) Counselor: So ... Do you want to talk to me about it? Visitor: I’m alone now ... uncomfortable. (Tone is very low.)