个案咨询手记:本文讲述了一名高中一年级女生在父母不间断的争吵和长期无原则的管教中,变得无法正常表达自己的情绪,她常常通过歇斯底里的行为来遏制父母。进入青春期,她更是以种种极端行为企图左右父母。她厌倦父母的唠叨,鄙视父母的社会地位,觉得父母无能而愚蠢,甚至难以忍受母亲愁眉苦脸的表情,因此通过暴怒和攻击行为来表达自己的不满。父母对孩子束手无策,带着她求助心理咨询师。通过心理辅导,父母意识到自身的言行对孩子影响 CASE CONSULTATION: This article describes a first-year high school girl who became unable to express her feelings normally through her constant parenting quarrel and long-term, unprincipled discipline. She often deterred her parents through hysterical behavior. Into adolescence, she is even more extreme attempt to influence their parents. She was tired of nagging her parents, despising the social status of her parents, feeling stupid and incompetent of her parents, and even embarrassed her mother’s frowning expression, thus expressing her dissatisfaction through rage and aggressive behavior. Parents do nothing to their children, with her help counseling division. Through psychological counseling, parents realize that their own words and deeds affect their children