“天上无云不下雨,地上无媒不成婚。”这是豫西南农村流传的民谚,说的是婚嫁习俗。孟子把“父母之命,媒妁之言”放在同等重要的地位,甚至列为子女孝道主要内容。尽管《诗经》里早就有花季少女暗恋帅哥或互相倾慕的情形,但“有情人终成眷属”却无不需要媒人从中撮合。所以,即使是《天仙配》中的董永与七仙女,也要找一棵古树做媒人方才算正式 “There is no cloud in the sky without rain, there is no way to marry on the ground.” This is a popular saying in rural Southwest Henan, which means marriage customs. Mencius placed “the life of the parents, the words of the media” on the same important position and even the main content of the filial piety of children. Although the “Book of Songs” has long been a girl in love with the handsome boy or admire each other’s situation, but “lovers get married ” but without exception, the matchmaker from which to match. Therefore, even the “fairy” with Dong Yong and the seven fairies, but also to find an old matchmaker just to be formal