答案很简单,因为很少有人可以帮助我们建立自信。有些人甚至还火上浇油,这就让我们越发地不自信。然而,对于那些我们非常关心的问题,比如孩子的健康和教育,我们又很难做到我行我素,不管别人怎么说。结果是,大家说什么我们听什么,无论谁的话都听。于是,人们又责怪我们缺少主见。那么,到底该怎么做呢? 戈朗塞尼博士回答了妈妈们的提问。 The answer is simple, because few people can help us build confidence. Some people are even fueled, which makes us increasingly unconfident. However, for those issues that we care about very much, such as children’s health and education, it is very difficult for us to do our own thing, no matter what others say. As a result, we say what we listen to, no matter who is listening. People then blame us for lack of assertiveness. So what exactly to do? Dr. Gordonseney answered mothers’ questions.