六十年代孙雯的父亲孙宗高在上海入伍,入伍后马上被安排到福建闽北指挥部服役。1964年,孙宗高作为部队派出人员去福建霞浦县参加“四清”工作。正巧,从福建师范学校毕业的汪秋云作为福安县教育局派出人员也去霞浦搞“四清”运动,两个年轻人因此相识相恋。后来,孙宗高复员回到上海,成了上海新建机器厂一名工人。汪秋云则回福安当了教师。虽然相隔千里,但爱慕之情使他们一直心心相印。1969年,两个有情人在福建办了结婚手续,最后他们在上海举行了婚礼。婚后不久、也就是在1972年春他们有了爱情的结晶,那就是他们的大女儿孙倩,第二年4月才生下了孙雯。孙雯是在福建上到小学一年级下半期才转到上海读书的。由于家里条件限制、父母两地分居,孙雯只能跟着父亲,说起来孙佘高还真不容易,既当爹又当妈,承担起两个女儿的教养责任。只有在寒假的时候,父女三人才能到福建全家团聚;有时放暑假,孙雯的妈妈也会到上海看望他们。家里的生活本来就不富裕,这样长时间地跑来跑去,大部分的钱都扔在了路上,这样的生活直到1985年才结束,那一年孙雯妈妈和孙 Sun Zong Gao’s father Sun Zonggao was enlisted in Shanghai in the 1960s and was immediately placed in command of Fujian’s northern Fujian Province after enlisting. In 1964, Sun Zongao sent troops to Xiapu County, Fujian Province to participate in the work of “Siqing”. Coincidentally, Wang Qiuyun graduated from Fujian Normal School as Fuan County Bureau of Education sent to Xia Pu engage in “Siqing ” movement, so two young people fell in love. Later, Sun Zonggao demobilized returned to Shanghai and became a worker in Shanghai’s newly built machine factory. Wang Qiuyun is back to Fu’an as a teacher. Although separated by thousands of miles, but love so that they have been in love with each other. In 1969, two lovers got married in Fujian and finally got married in Shanghai. Soon after marriage, that is, in the spring of 1972 they had the crystallization of love, that is their eldest daughter, Sun Qian, born in April the following year, Sun Wen. Sun Wen went to Shanghai to study in the second half of first grade in Fujian. Due to family conditions, separation of parents and children, Sun Wen can only follow his father, speaking of Sun She Gao is not easy, when the father and mother, assume the responsibility of upbringing of two daughters. Only in the winter vacation, the father and daughter three to reunite the whole family in Fujian; sometimes summer vacation, Sun Wen’s mother will go to Shanghai to visit them. Home life is not wealthy, so long run around, most of the money thrown on the road, this life did not end until 1985, that year, Sun Wen mother and grandchildren