导语:春节一过,某电视台的记者来到一所小学调研,看看孩子们在“压岁钱”上到底有多大收获。正当记者们忙着统计刚交上来的调查表时,忽然接到学校老师的电话,说数据“水分太多”。原来,很多孩子基于攀比心理,为了给自己“争面子”。使劲儿把数字往多填。这让见多识广的记者们“大开眼界”!那位老师见怪不怪地说:“数据造假还是小事儿,一些孩子的虚荣心和攀比欲比这厉害多啦!不仅比名牌、比进口货,而且还比接送车辆的档次、父母的长相……我班上的一个孩子因为爸爸职业一般、不够‘帅气’,居然每次家长会都请在IT公司当老总、酷似明星黄晓明的舅舅参加。”攀比欲发展到如此程度,究竟是孩子“病”了,还是孩子周围的社会风气和家庭教育方法“病”了呢?让我们先来了解一下父母们的看法和如何才能破孩子的“攀比八卦阵”吧。 Lead language: After the Spring Festival, a television reporter came to a primary school research to see how much money the kids have on New Year’s Eve money. Just as journalists were busy counting the questionnaires just handed in, they suddenly received phone calls from school teachers and said the data was “too much water.” It turned out that many children based on compassion, in order to “fight their own face.” Fight the number to fill more. This makes informed journalists “eye-opener!” The teacher weird to say: “Data fraud is still a small thing, some children’s vanity and more powerful than this! More than just brand, than Imported goods, but also than the grade of pick-up vehicles, parents look ... ... A class in my class because of my father’s job generally not ’handsome’, actually every time the parents will be in the IT company when the boss, exactly like the star Huang Xiaoming’s uncle To participate in the competition. ”To climb to such an extent, is the child“ sick ”, or the social atmosphere around children and family education methods“ disease ”? Let us first understand the views of parents and how to break the child “Comparisons Bagua array” it.