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2015年全国学前教育宣传月,教育部基础教育二司与教育部新闻办公室面向全国征集并精选出的家庭教育案例,家长们不妨仔细读读,同时听听专家的点评。别让过度赞美麻木了孩子明明很喜欢画画,可是有一次展览作品的时候,他撅着嘴说:“无论我画成什么样子,老师都会说‘画得真不错’。小海胡乱涂上颜色老师也会夸她,还给她和我一样的奖品,真没意思!”专家点评过度赏识和不必要的赞美,并不能有效表达你对孩子的喜爱,在一定程度上还会让孩子过于依赖外在的评价,而没有真正投入到事物本身,久而久之,会弱化孩子的责任感和上进心,缺乏做事的动力。
2015 National Propaganda Month, Ministry of Education, Basic Education Division and the Ministry of Education Information Office for the national collection and selection of family education cases, parents may wish to read carefully, while listening to expert comments. Do not numb the excessive praise nursery children obviously like to draw, but once the exhibition works, he pouted: “no matter what I painted, the teacher will say,” really good painting. Color teacher will praise her, give her the same prize as me, really boring! "Expert comments over appreciation and unnecessary compliment, and can not effectively express your love of children, to a certain extent, will make children too Rely on external evaluation, but not really into the things themselves, over time, will weaken the child’s sense of responsibility and ambition, lack of motivation to do things.