有些父母,当孩子不听话或做错了事情,往往用“打”来对待。由于孩子在成人面前是幼者和弱者,他当然怕打,立即表示听从。打孩子果真能奏效吗?从表面上看,孩子怕打暂时屈服了。但是,从实质上看,孩子并没有真正受到教育; Some parents, when children disobedient or do something wrong, often use “fight ” to treat. Since children are young and infirm in front of adults, he is certainly afraid of hitting and immediately hesitates. Is it really effective to play a child? On the surface, the child is temporarily afraid to fight. However, in essence, children are not really educated;