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国学大师张中行在《婚姻》一文中说“:世间的一切事物,都可以分等级,婚姻也是这样。以当事者满意的程度为标准,我多年阅世加内省,认为可以分为四个等级:可意,可过,可忍,不可忍。”什么叫婚姻?有人说,婚姻是美梦的开始,也是爱情的归宿;有人说,婚姻是一本书,第一章写的是诗篇,其余则全是平淡的散文;有人说,婚姻是一条绳索,套上了脖子,就再不容易打开;有人说,婚姻是一个金色的鸟笼,在外面的想进去,在里面的想出来;有人说,婚姻是一双鞋,舒服不舒服,只有脚知道。张中行把婚姻分成四个等级,看似非常残酷,
Zhang Zhongxing, a master of Chinese learning, said in the article “Marriage”: "Everything in the world can be graded and so is marriage. To the degree of satisfaction of the parties as the standard, I have read many years in the interior of Canada and thought that it can be divided into four levels: It is said that marriage is the beginning of a dream, but also the end of love; some people say that marriage is a book, the first chapter is written in the Psalms, the rest of the rest Some people say that marriage is a rope, put on the neck, it is not easy to open; Some people say that marriage is a golden bird cage, outside want to go in, think out inside; Some people say Marriage is a pair of shoes, comfortable uncomfortable, only the feet know. Zhang Zhonghang divided the marriage into four levels, which may seem very cruel,