之一我是谁?近两年来,面对取消“统包统分”的就业分配制度,大学生自主择业使大学生的心态既有焦虑又有欣喜,既有困惑又有兴奋,既有迷茫又有清醒,既有无奈更有一分从容。一个具备成功型人格的大学生在择业前表现出的更多的是清醒和从容。知己知彼,百战不殆,知彼容易,知己则很难。首先,要弄清楚自己的长处是什么,所谓长处,就是自己的特长和优点是什么,这种特长和优点是否是自己所独有的。然后,要弄清楚自己的长处是不是社会普遍认可的。只有被社会普遍认可的长处才能被社会所接受。其次,要弄清楚自己的短处是什么,所谓短处,就是自己的缺点毛病是什么,要弄清楚自己的短处是不是可弥补的。长处和短处都是相对而言的,一个人只有善于发现自己的长处和短处,才可能取长补短,扬长避短,从而使自己定准位置。只有弄清了“我是谁”之后,才能对号入座,去寻找适合自己发展的企业。这里要提醒的是:知人者智,自知者明;胜人者有力,自胜者强。 Who am I? In the past two years, facing the cancellation of the “all-inclusive” employment allocation system, college students make their own careers so that students are not only anxious but also happy, both confused and excited, both confused Another sober, both more helpless calm. A college student with a successful personality shows more soberness and calmness before choosing a career. Know thyself, know yourself, easy to know, confidante is very difficult. First of all, to find out what their strengths are, the so-called strengths are what their strengths and merits are, and whether these specialties and advantages are unique to them. Then, to find out whether their strengths are generally accepted by society. Only socially accepted strengths can be accepted by society. Second, to find out what their shortcomings are, the so-called shortcomings are the shortcomings of their own problems, to find out if their shortcomings are not compensable. Strengths and weaknesses are relative terms. Only by being good at discovering their own strengths and weaknesses can one be able to make up for each other’s weaknesses and thereby make one’s own place. Only to find out “I am who ” after the condemnation to find suitable for their own business development. Here to remind is: people know wisdom, self-knowledge Ming; winner of a strong, strong from the winner.