在动笔写邢增仪时，我才猛然意识到，我与她相识已近７年。７年，那是一个不算短的时段，在当今社会中，比很多人的婚姻维持时间都要长。同性间的友谊要维持７年，而且还“与时俱进”，也许更难，何况我与她的年龄、职业、生活状态等等都有着很大的差异；可以说，是她非同寻常 When I wrote Xing Zengyi, I suddenly realized that I had known her for nearly seven years. For seven years, it was a not too short period of time, and marriage maintenance was longer in many people than in many other people’s lives. It may be more difficult for the same-sex friendship to last seven years, but also to “keep pace with the times”. Moreover, I have a lot of differences with her in terms of age, occupation, living conditions, etc. It can be said that she is extraordinary