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雪花飘飘,铃儿当当,每年的12月里,乐乐都将在甜蜜中盼望着圣诞节、元旦等节日的到来。因为只有过节,爸爸妈妈才能从家里紧巴巴的生活费中拿出一些钱给他买礼物。以往,无论礼物是什么,他总是很开心!但是今年,他却不再盼望,因为每当同学们炫耀收到的礼物时,他总会因为自己的礼物拿不出手而难堪……妈妈偶尔从乐乐的日记里看到了他的这件心事,妈妈也发愁了:“是啊,别的家长送孩子上名校,给孩子买手机,让孩子学琴棋书画,给孩子送昂贵的礼物,而我们……”爸爸却生气地说:“你怎么不看邻居家的敏敏,人家每次考试都得第一名,乐乐呢?总是不争气……”乐乐和同学比礼物,妈妈和别人比孩子的学习条件,爸爸和别人比孩子的学习成绩,这种攀比现象在生活中很常见。那么,当孩子和家长遇到类似问题时,究竟应该怎样去对待呢?
Snow fluttering, bells Dangdang, December each year, Lele will be looking forward to Christmas in sweet, New Year’s Day and other holidays. Because only festivals, mom and dad can get some money out of their living expenses at home to buy gifts for him. He was always happy, no matter what the present, but this year he did not look forward to it anymore because he always embarrassed each time his classmates show off the gifts they received From Lele’s diary to see his mind, my mother is also worried: “Yes ah, other parents send their children to elite schools, to buy mobile phones for children, children learn poetry and painting, to send expensive gifts to their children , And we ... ... ”Daddy was angry to say:" Why do not you see the Minmin neighbor’s sensitivity, people have to take the first place in each exam, always do not disappoint ... Lele Students than gifts, mom and others than children learning conditions, father and others than children’s academic performance, this phenomenon is very common in life. So, when children and parents encounter similar problems, what exactly should be treated?