当自己有了孩子以后,我才真正体会到教育孩子的艰辛和不易。刚开始,我很想努力使自己成为一个合格的父亲,对孩子严格要求,平常总是板着面孔,以一种居高临下的姿态来维护父亲的尊严。可慢慢地,我发觉这样做的效果并不好。因为我面对的是一个常常出错的小家伙,在遭到训斥时表面上 When I had my own children, I really learned the hardships and difficulties of educating my children. At first, I really wanted to work hard to become a qualified father, strict requirements on the children, usually always face, in a commanding attitude to maintain the dignity of his father. But slowly, I found the effect was not good. Because I was faced with a small, often wrong, superficial appearance when reprimanded