中小学生中总是有很多学生持续性地受到其他同学的欺负,这些经常被人欺负的学生一般被称作受欺负者,即,俗话所说的“受气包”。受气包儿童一般有如下的典型表现:经常小心谨慎、敏感和安静;表现为焦虑、缺乏安全感、不招惹别人也不能保卫自己;当受到其他同学攻击时,他们通常的反应是哭(至少低年级儿童是这样)和退缩;低自尊,对他们自身和周围环境的看法为负向;经常认为自己是个失败者,感觉比较蠢笨、丢人和缺乏吸 There are always many students in primary and middle school students who are constantly bullied by other students. These students who are often bullied are generally called bullies, that is, the saying goes. Boiled children generally have the following typical manifestations: often cautious, sensitive and quiet; performance of anxiety, lack of security, do not provoke others can not defend themselves; when attacked by other students, their usual response is to cry (at least low Low grade self-esteem, negative perception of themselves and their surroundings; often think of themselves as a loser, feeling rather stupid, shameful and lacking in suction