第一钻石法则只要是你的孩子能够自己做的事,一定要让他尽量多地去做。只要孩子已经掌握某项技能或能够完成某件事了,以后就必须坚持让他自己做。如果孩子能够自己走路了,那么家长就不应该继续抱他。如果孩子能够自己吃饭了,(不管吃的多么的糟糕,弄得多脏),家长就不应该继续喂他了。 The first diamond rule as long as your child can do it himself, must let him do as much as possible. As long as the child has mastered a skill or can accomplish something, he must insist on letting himself do it later. If the child is able to walk on their own, then parents should not continue to hug him. If the child can eat for himself (no matter how bad it is or how dirty it is), parents should not feed him anymore.