1我这一代的女人和上一代的女人最大的不同:虽然婚后还是尽力为家庭付出,但已经不那么依靠另一半的经济功能,就算婚姻很好,另一半收入非常高。若一个女人从进入社会之后就自食其力,结婚后,因为种种原因,没了工作也没了收入,就会有一种奇妙的自卑感油然而生。某天,我的业务伙伴小芸要结婚了。这不是一件容易的事,几年前,小芸告诉我,她有恐婚症。小芸的爸妈在她很小的时候离婚了,而且各自 1 The greatest difference between the women of this generation and the women of the previous generation: Although after marriage I still try my best to help the family, I have relied less on the economic functions of the other half, even though the marriage is good and the other half is very rewarded. If a woman becomes self-reliant after entering society, after marrying for various reasons, she will have a wonderful feeling of inferiority arising from her lack of work and income. One day, my business partner Xiao Yun is getting married. This is not an easy task, a few years ago, Yun told me that she had a fear of marriage disorder. Xiaoyun parents divorced when she was young, and their own