想留下的男人,不会仅仅因为喜欢跟你做爱;想离开的男人,也不会因为他已经睡过这么简单。我身边有这么一个姑娘,情感经历一直很坎坷。因为,每次遇到有点儿动心的男人,她就开始纠结“睡与不睡”的大问题。她有这么一套很是折磨人的神逻辑:两情相悦,如果一直拖着不和人家睡,就显得自己不够真诚;另一方面,她又很怕一旦睡过之后,男的提起裤子走人,“唉,要是他以后不要我了怎么办?他都已经睡过我了。”好像男人追求女人,仅仅只是为了睡一睡。不知从什么时候开始,我们经常听到这样一种貌似很有道理、貌似很为女 Men want to leave, not just because they like to have sex with you; want to leave the man, nor because he had slept so simple. There is such a girl around me, emotional experience has been very rough. Because, every time I met a little tempted man, she began to tangle “sleep and not sleep ” big problem. She has such a set of very torture God’s logic: mutual affection, if you have been dragging and sleeping, they seem to be not sincere enough; the other hand, she was afraid to sleep once, men’s pants “Oh, what if he does not want me? He has slept over me. ” It seems like a man to pursue a woman, just to sleep. I do not know when to start, we often hear such a seemingly very reasonable, seemingly very female