一成家后第一次与父母爆发激烈冲突,是在弟弟找工作时。弟弟那年在南方某985大学计算机专业读研究生三年级,职业理想就是留在学校所在的城市做程序员。这份工作收入可观,他的想法也具有可操作性,全家人都很支持。谁也没想到,2013年就业形势那么严峻,弟弟一次次碰壁。有一次他深夜打来电话,失声痛哭。我没有告诉父母—对已经退休的老两口来说,再担心儿女 The first time after I became a family broke out violent clashes with my parents when my younger brother was looking for a job. That year, my brother in the south of a 985 college computer professional graduate third grade, occupation ideal is to stay in the school where the city as a programmer. The job was handsome, his idea was workable, and the whole family supported it. Who did not expect that the employment situation in 2013 so severe, my brother hit the wall again and again. Once he called late at night and burst into tears. I did not tell my parents - for my retired husband and wife, worry about children again