孩子在幼儿园遭同伴欺负,或挨了拳脚,或被撕破衣裤,这对家长来说,都是非常烦心的事。孩子被人欺负,通常家长会采取两种方法:一是要孩子事后去报告老师,或由家长直接向老师反映;二是有的家长要孩子以牙还牙,“他凶,你就比他更凶”。前一种方法应该说是有效的,但它是在孩子遭受了欺负以后的对策,毕竟为时已晚;后一种方法则不可取,因为 Children are bullied by partners in kindergarten, or suffer foot or torn clothes, which parents are very bothering thing. Children are bullied, usually parents will take two ways: First, to the child to report to the teacher afterwards, or by the parents directly to the teacher to reflect; Second, some parents want children to teeth, “he fierce, you fiercer than him” . The former method should be said to be effective, but it is too late after the child has been bullied; after all, it is not advisable