有这样一篇文章《要会向孩子“推销”自己》:有位做母亲的老是抱怨:说自己的女儿不能体贴父母,理解父母。父母每天白天工作很紧,晚上回家后还得操持家务,特别是对女儿照顾无微不至。可女儿呢,好像是得了“感情淡漠症”,对父母的这份爱心并不“领情”,不管父母多么忙和累,她都跟无事人似地看她的电视或玩她的游戏机,甚至连句关心问候的话都没有。因此,这位母亲时常一生气就爱骂女儿:“你不知道我有多累。” There is an article like “To sell yourself” to your children: There is always a mother complaining that her daughter can’t consider her parents and understand her parents. Parents work very tight during the day and they have to take care of the house after returning home at night, especially taking care of their daughter. But her daughter, it seems that she has “emotional apathy”. This kind of love for her parents is not “passionate.” No matter how busy and tired her parents are, she is watching her TV or playing her game console. Even words that care about greetings are not. Therefore, this mother always loves her daughter when she is angry: “You don’t know how tired I am.”