“打人别打脸，骂人莫揭短。”的确，交际时揭他人的伤疤、短处。攻击别人的缺点隐私，是会招不满，生怨恨，引发矛盾和冲突的。不过，在交际中善于揭自己的短处，却有其独到的交际妙用，能收到意想不到的效果。揭短示弱，以退为进人的优势劣势，长处和短处都是相对的。只... “Hit people do not hit the face, curse Mo Jie short.” Indeed, others exposed when exposed scars, weaknesses. To attack others’ weaknesses in privacy is to invite dissatisfaction and resentment, provoking conflicts and conflicts. However, good at exposing their own shortcomings in communication, but it has its unique communicational magic, can receive unexpected results. Exposing weakness and weakness to retreat into the disadvantaged advantages, strengths and weaknesses are relative. only...